Sunday, September 18, 2011

Small Town, Big Heart

Small town living has countless pros and cons. One of the pluses is definitely how the residents rally when one of their own is in need. We saw an amazing example of that in my town this past weekend.

From Saturday afternoon until well into the wee hours of Sunday morning, a group of local musical talent came together to participate in a benefit concert. The concert was in aid of a terminally ill resident who travelled to Europe for treatment options not currently available in Canada. Needless to say this travel was at an exorbitant cost to the family. In their shoes, any of us would do the same - in a heartbeat. Friends of the family suggested a benefit concert to raise funds, hoping that even a few hundred dollars would be a help to offset some of the expenses.

Our small town of only 1,500 residents raised nearly $15,000 at this benefit!! And I have a feeling that amount will grow over the days and weeks ahead. I hope the money is a help to the family and I especially hope the love and support demonstrated by the town is uplifting and comforting to them at this stressful and difficult time.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Last Words

"My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world."  
-- Jack Layton (1950-2011)


I hope the ripple of these beautiful words encompass the nation, the continent, the world. 


Rest in peace, Jack Layton. 

Returns

A quick update on the repayment status of my first Kiva loan; to date I have received one payment (representing 12% payback of total loan amount) and it was 3 weeks early! I was so encouraged by this that I went ahead with a second loan. As the monies are repaid, my plan is to keep re-lending the funds to other Kiva borrowers. It feels good!!! 

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

No Place to Call Home

I had an interesting conversation with my 15 year old son over lunch yesterday. He was telling me about the movie “8 Mile”, a semi-autobiopic movie about rapper Eminem. An aside before proceeding -- my son has rather eclectic tastes in music -- his iPod contains everything from Brad Paisley to ZZ Top to Black Sabbath to Eminem. The kid appreciates music in all its forms, including rap. While I don’t share that particular appreciation I do respect the fact that he does.
Anyway, we were discussing how many rap artists emerged from lives of extreme disadvantage, poverty, violence and so forth. He made the observation that so often our attention is directed to developing nations in need of help but what about the poverty-stricken, hungry and homeless right in our own country. It was a very good point.
Back in April, we walked through Union Station in downtown Toronto late at night following a concert at the ACC. I was shocked and completely overwhelmed by the number of homeless people in the station with outreached hands and containers. Despite a national welfare system, too many people fall through the cracks. In Canada there are between 150,000 to 300,000 homeless people (the numbers vary by source). Misconceptions run rampant on who these homeless people are: drug addicts, mentally ill individuals, lazy people who choose not to work. Perhaps in some cases, but they are also the working poor who cannot find affordable housing. They are those individuals down on their luck, unable to find or maintain employment. They are you and me without our good fortune.
There are so many people out there without the benefit of a supportive family or network of friends when life takes a downturn; when they find themselves without a steady job (or an adequately paying job) or a sturdy roof over their heads. Lack of affordable housing, even in small rural towns exacerbates the problem. Bad luck can befall any of us. Life circumstances can change in the blink of an eye. Canada is the only G-8 nation not to have a national housing strategy. Even low income housing is market driven which means rents are often too high for low income individuals and families to afford.
The proverbial question is of course what can we do to make a difference? We can lobby our government for a comprehensive national housing policy to ensure housing is provided on a social driven basis, not market driven, which in turn would assure every Canadian the right to a home. We can donate gently used clothing and household items to organizations such as The Gathering Place (St. John’s) or Salvation Army. We can donate our recyclables to organizations or individuals in need in our communities. We can support our local food banks with regular donations of non-perishable goods or cash gifts. We can become more aware of this growing problem and spread awareness to others. And if we find ourselves at the giving end of an outreached hand, we can smile in kindness and we can give. 

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Kind Words


"Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless."
-Mother Teresa (1910-1997)

Friday, July 29, 2011

Kind Investments

Happy Friday Blogosphere Friends!

I am on my lunch break and I have just made two random investments of kindness.

One, I donated to a beautiful friend who is participating in the “Run for the Cure” in October. She is a breast cancer survivor. I have several friends who are either battling breast cancer or have survived and beaten the disease, including my best friend. This cause is very important to me. If you would like to support my friend, Hannah, please contact me and I will send you her link.
 
Two, I made my first micro-loan to an entrepreneur in  Rwanda through Kiva, an organization whose mission is “a hand up, not a hand out”. Most people in third world countries do not have access to credit. Kiva is helping lift the oppression of poverty by enabling every day people like you and me to lend money to enterprising individuals in developing countries who want to make a difference in their own lives and communities. For more information about Kiva and how YOU can change a life by lending as little as $25, visit http://kiva.org/invitedby/roxane6416. Something to think about!!!

Roxane
:)

Thursday, July 28, 2011

You Are What You Think

I actually wrote the following in response to a post on a Leadership blog I recently started following.  I believe it is relevant to the message in my blog as well so I will re-post here.

I have always loved this quote:

“WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS for they become your words
WATCH YOUR WORDS for they become your actions
WATCH YOUR ACTIONS for they become your habits
WATCH YOUR HABITS for they become your character
WATCH YOUR CHARACTER for it becomes your destiny”

The genesis of reality IS thought. And the true power of thought IS choice.

In every decision we make, in every response to every situation, in every manner we interact with others, we have the power and free will to choose our thoughts, our words, and our actions. Negativity drains the energy and light out of everything in its path. Positivity serves to infuse ourselves and those we touch with vibrant, creative energies, optimism and hope. You never forget the bright, sunshiny, positive people who touch your world.

I choose to nurture a positive, healthy reality borne of positive, healthy thinking. I choose optimism and enlightenment.

The beauty of optimism is that it is an equal opportunity choice; we all have the power to empower ourselves.